Did my partner get this?

[Questions and Worried]

I'm feeling really guilty. I had sex with my partner a couple of days after my last herpes outbreak and I'm worried sick she might have gotten it. What are the chances I could have given it to her with no symptoms present?

[Scooby]

There's no way to know for certain. Herpes can be active a few days a year with no symptoms apparent and it's possible to transmit it. Who knows, though, in your case? It's certainly not a given your partner was exposed and even if she was, doesn't mean she'll be infected. The fact you waited until the sores were gone (if I read you correctly) is a good thing.